Do you ever wonder why we end up sleeping with the people we sleep with? Do you believe it’s because we are attracted to them physically? This can be the reason, but I believe there are many more unspoken reasons why we end up doing the nasty with certain people and it doesn’t always have to be because we find them appealing to the eye. Lets start off from the time we’re in school, either middle school or high school.
When you were in school what determined who got your attention. How did you make a choice of who to put value into to a point where you’d end up sleeping with them? One place I would begin is the value other people put into the person.
This may seem shallow, but I believe the value other people put into a person is going to play a huge factor in determining how much value you put into them. Some people may argue otherwise, but we see examples of this all the time. How many times have you liked someone but you knew your friends wouldn’t like the person?
This is just another way of saying other people do not value the person and since they don’t value the person you cannot value them either. How many times have you seen someone and not given them a second glance? Did your opinions about the person change when you say they had high value to others?
If your opinion changes when you see they had high value to others why do you think this is? Other people now find value in the person and the fact that other people find value in them means they’ll have value to you now. Think about it, the money in your pocket would be meaningless if other people didn’t find it valuable.
But because they find it valuable this means it has value to you. The same goes for the people we decide to pull our underwear down for ultimately. You’ll have a hard time even trying to associate with someone who you put no value in, and you’ll feel like your value is higher then the other persons if no one else puts value into them
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